Actress Bose Alao, Razak Omotoyossi’s Widow Reflects on Experience After Death: “A Path of Tears”

• Actress Bose Alao, late footballer Razak Omotoyosi’s widow, has returned to social media weeks after his death
• She shared the emotional journey of her first 40 days of widowhood, revealing how she and her children were bullied
• The Nollywood actress also expressed gratitude to family, friends, colleagues, and the Republic of Benin for their support

Nollywood actress Bose Alao has completed her first 40 days of widowhood weeks after losing her husband, footballer Razak Omotoyossi.

Alao, who returned to social media on Sunday, September 28, disclosed that her 40 days of widowhood was a path of tears, silence, and strength she never imagined she would walk.

Recall that the world woke up on August 19 to the tragic news that Omotoyossi had passed away at 39, having battled depression for some time.

The actress stated that God sustained her during the period, adding that his grace carried her when her strength failed.

“I continue to pray for the soul of my beloved husband, a legend whose light will never fade. May he rest in perfect peace, wrapped in God’s eternal mercy. For our children, I pray for wisdom, protection, and greatness, that they grow to honour their father’s name and fulfil destiny with joy,” she wrote.

Alao pointed out the divine and mysterious part of her journey with her late husband.

“I met my husband on June 19, 2007, and I lost him on August 19, 2025, both dates falling on a Tuesday. To the world, it may look like coincidence, but to me, it is a sign that our story was written by God Himself. Time may have separated us, but love remains eternal,” she said.

Bose Alao speaks on bullying

The Nollywood actress disclosed she also faced bullying and accusations while mourning her husband.

According to Alao, some bullies went as far as wishing death upon her and her children.

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“This journey has not been free from pain or cruel accusations. To those who mock, bully, or even wish death upon me and my children, I hand you over to God Almighty. As Psalm 3 declares: ‘But You, O Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, and the lifter of my head.’ My smiles and my joy are God-given, they cannot be stolen, no matter your wish. The one who digs a pit will fall into it, and no weapon formed against us shall prosper,” she wrote.

The actress also penned an appreciation to everyone who stood by her and her children, including the Republic of Benin, the country her late husband played for as a footballer.

“As I step out, I choose hope, peace, and happiness. My God who began this journey with me will perfect it. My future will be filled with genuine smiles, and my children and I will live to testify of His goodness. RIP ADESHINA ADIO OKO ABIKE,” she added.

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Bose Alao‘s social media post as she returned online after widowhood is below:

Why Bose Alao’s husband chose Benin over Nigeria

Legit.ng recalls reporting that Omotoyossi opened up about his decision to play for the Cheetahs of Benin.

He explained that he hoped to play for Nigeria after being inspired by the likes of Rashidi Yekini and Daniel Amokachi.

However, things didn’t work out like he expected; he disclosed he didn’t regret representing Benin.

Source: Legit.ng