AN adult star who receives thousands of messages from men feeling insecure about the size of their manhood has revealed what she says to put their minds at ease.
Madelynn May is on a mission to spread ‘penis positivity’ after realising that many fellas are suffering from a lack of confidence.
The model has warned guys not to compare their privates with what they see on screen in X-rated content.
She also wants to dispel the notion that size should have any impact on self worth.
Madelynn, who has 660,000 followers on Instagram, @bubblebabyz0, said: “I get at least 100 messages every day from men who feel insecure about their penis size.
“The only representation men really see is through pornography, where, of course, all the guys are huge, because it’s entertainment.
“But that’s not real.”
Madelynn feels disheartened to learn of the widespread insecurity amongst men when it comes to their size.
She added: “I’ve realised how big an issue this is and how insecure a lot of guys are – and I wish they didn’t feel that way about themselves.
“Body positivity goes for all genders.
“We always hear about women being told to love themselves no matter what, but men deserve that message too.
“They shouldn’t feel ashamed about something they can’t control.”
When she is contacted by her male fans, Madelynn, who lives in Las Vegas, reminds them that confidence, personality and connection matter far more than size in the bedroom.
Some of them will send her photos, and she always takes care to use gentle words to describe their pride and joy.
She said: “I just want to make them feel good.
“Some guys, who are in relationships or dating, worry about pleasing their partner – so I might give some tips as well.”
Madelynn has been working in the adult industry for the past five years.
She started as a stripper after struggling for cash and using food stamps while living in her parents’ basement.
After joining OnlyFans, she has seen her earnings skyrocket and now pockets an over £100k a month.
She has gone on to buy two homes and several cars outright – but it’s not all about the money.
Madelynn said: “I can’t deny that I enjoy my financial freedom.
“But I truly love my job and helping men, as well as women.
“I want to help people see their worth beyond their bodies.
“It’s about changing the narrative and reminding people that self-worth comes from who you are – not a measurement.”